The Womb / In Utero
Why love matters!
We need: A healthy womb.
A healthy Mum and a healthy Dad. A healthy world. This is where our story begins…
“How we are welcomed into this world matters and shapes and influences us for the rest of our lives…”
The first imprint of love is sensorial, a ‘felt sense’ in your mother’s womb. The second imprint is touch, your first experience of your mother’s love. The third is how you were welcome into the world.
Contrary to what we tend to learn about love, it isn’t an emotion. Love is a ‘state of being’ and felt in a ‘state of presence’ where there is no judgement or negativity, just pure acceptance. It take us years to learn the true nature of love.
How we experience those original imprints of love shapes the way we surf through life and experience the polarities of love and hate, pain and pleasure. It is a dance of love and separation, of giving and receiving. We explore and learn through the cycles of our life – birth, life, death – discovering how to let go of the ways to hold our ground that our primary survival instincts taught us.
I’ve come to understand it is a personal choice to fully live life and be happy. It is a determination we need to consciously make. It is learning to say yes to yourself above all adversity.
I invite you to see and feel through these pages what inspires your journey ‘back home’ and to take the next step: intention into action in your search for healing your past, living in your present and building your prosperous future. This will lead to finally walking your walk and talking your talk according to your true nature.
Please contact me to explore the best door to open to start your journey back home or tune into my live offerings and feel what calls you most.
This is our life journey and personal evolution.
From birth, we start to compromise our sense of self depending on how we came into this world, because the world around us had an effect on us: our mother, father, family and the world. From the word go, we start adapting to the world around us to exist.We need to understand our birth, roots, attachment and bonding, how we relate to ourselves and how we have integrated our experience of love and past events. Sometimes traumatic, shocking events are at the core of learning and accepting how to receive from life as well as how to give ourselves to life.
We go on living life mostly at the core of our invisible wounds. We forget we have a body, living only inside it. It is our only home. Reconnection to our body is vital for making sense of ourselves and trusting again inside and out. The first step is to relearn to trust our guts and our instinct! Trusting we can realign our ‘inner dialogue’ in connection to our ‘outer dialogue’ and in touch with our ‘inner felt sense’, our heart.
You may need to redefine your original early life experience by making an active radical choice and taking up space to reclaim yourself. You need to relearn self-love, redefine in yourself what feels true or not about your past experiences. Allow time and space to find a new way of expressing yourself and learn to self-validate and give meaning to what is important to you.
It’s about developing self-compassion and determination for living the live that feels right. Living to your full potential requires the courage to see, feel and listen fully and deeply to your heart.